My Work in Print
Publications I write for…
A selection of my work in print…
Interview with Yvonne Mes, WriteLinks Editor
Please tell me you have more books like this planned?!
Yes, at the end of each year, I’ll publish another Bedtime Story book for grownups, using the best stories I’ve published from the year before, possibly in e-book format to start with, and maybe one for Dads!
What was your road to getting this book published?
I have always loved to write, and used letters, journals and diaries to debrief about my life experiences. Blogging became another outlet after a Picture Book author suggested I get an audience and a platform before I started to submit stories to publishers. So just over a year ago, I started Distractions of a Busy Mother and realised that debriefing about imperfect parenting and describing positive experiences and inspirational events connected with a lot of people (mainly women between 30 and 60). My stories were read out on the radio and picked up by a few online magazines, and hey presto, I had a platform, an audience and a reason for writing. Now I can’t stop.
I see wonder, beauty, pain and choices everywhere I look, and can’t wait to get my fingers typing about so many different topics that might resonate with my readers. Because I was frightened off traditional publishing by a publisher who said they received 1000 manuscripts a day, I decided that life is too short to wait for someone to ‘discover’ me. So, I took the initiative, started my own publishing house (Mindful Matter Publications), found a great editor, printer and started learning everything I could about marketing. And here I am!
Can you share some tips for busy mothers?
Ha! I can offer some but I’d love to receive some in return!
I’m always looking for smarter ways to live and parent! But for what it’s worth:
1. Be your true, authentic self. Your kids will know if you’re trying to practice a new technique on them that you’ve read about in a book. If it doesn’t come naturally, ask yourself why and then perhaps change the technique to suit your own style and voice
2. Those books next to your bed that tell you how to be a better parent can also sap your self-esteem. Perhaps get a blank journal and keep a record of all the things you do well as a mother, rather than beating yourself up about not being perfect. Just being aware of your developmental areas is a good start, and if you make a mistake, just pick yourself up, dust yourself off and do it better next time.
3. Follow all the same advice you give your children!
4. Have your own hobbies that don’t involve the kids or your partner and make time for them
5. Don’t stop reading for pleasure… even if it’s only 15 minutes a day… sit up in bed, don’t lie down to read! Else, you’re a goner!
6. Allow yourself down-time. Watch a DVD with the kids, or watch one of your own when they’re watching theirs! No guilt!
7. My biggest tip: ask for help when you are snowed under. Start with your kids, then your partner, then your extended family, then your friends. They don’t know what to do to help you. Be specific, give a time frame and then say thank you without the need to pay them back with gifts. Let them help you, as you will pay it forward when you can, I just know it.
What are you working on now?
Apart from the marketing and promotion planning for this book, I’m continuing to write weekly essays for various online publications. I am also doing the QWC’s Year of the Edit to finish off my YA Manuscript, Salt.
This story is based on our real-life experiences in London during the 2005 terrorist attacks and the ensuing sailing adventure. The heroine is a 16 year old Australian teenager called Rosie who finds power at sea after the traumatic past she’s had.
Thank you, Caylie. I am looking forward to more stories and hope to one day hold one of your picture books in my hands!